Resolve Your Divorce Peacefully, Affordably, and With Confidence
Every family is different, and so is every divorce. This section helps you choose the right path to complete your California divorce without unnecessary conflict or runaway attorney fees. Whether you’re doing it alone, want occasional guidance, or prefer full mediation, you can move forward with clarity and support.
Start HereWhich Path Best Describes Your Situation?
DIY Path (Little or No Money)
Best if you’re on a tight budget and need a clear, step-by-step roadmap. Use free tools to stay organized, create parenting plans, understand support, and prepare a ready-to-print court binder.
- Free, self-paced tools
- Checklists and planners in plain English
- Parenting and support sandboxes
- Ready-to-print filing binder
DIY + Coaching Support
Ideal if you want to save money but don’t want to feel alone. You complete the steps at your own pace, and we help you when you’re stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure what comes next.
- Use all DIY tools
- Low-cost one-on-one sessions
- Prevent costly mistakes and delays
- Reduce conflict and emotional overload
Full Mediation Path
Best for couples who are willing to work together with a neutral mediator. You’ll follow a structured, respectful process to resolve parenting, support, assets, and debts without going to court.
- Neutral guidance for both of you
- Clear session-by-session roadmap
- Work through tough issues safely
- Produce a complete settlement agreement
Not sure which path to choose?
Open the statements below that sound like you.
I have little or no money to spend on attorneys right now.
The DIY Path is your best starting point. You can complete your divorce using structured tools, checklists, and planners. Later, you can add low-cost coaching if you want a second set of eyes.
We can sometimes talk, but conflict and misunderstandings keep popping up.
DIY + Coaching is usually the best fit here. You’ll still use affordable DIY tools, but you’ll also have access to guided support to help you stay calm, clear, and on track.
We are both willing to work together with a neutral guide.
The Full Mediation Path is your strongest option. A neutral mediator helps you organize issues, explore options, and reach agreements that can be turned into a court-ready settlement.
What Every Path Has in Common
No matter which path you choose, the goal is the same: less chaos, less confusion, and more clarity for you and your family.
- Plain-English explanations written for non-lawyers
- Step-by-step structure you can follow at your own pace
- Tools to help you stay organized and prepared
- Strategies to reduce emotional explosions and arguing
- Referrals to outside legal or mental-health help when needed
Ready to Take the Next Step?
You don’t have to figure this out alone. Choose the path that fits your situation today, and you can always move between options as your needs and budget change.
Begin with the DIY PathNot Sure Where to Start?
Take this quick 5-question quiz to find out whether you should choose DIY, Coaching, or Full Mediation.
1. How much conflict is currently happening between you and the other party?
2. Do you feel overwhelmed, confused, or stuck?
3. Is the other party willing to communicate calmly?
4. How comfortable are you managing forms, organization, and planning?
5. How quickly do you need progress?