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PTSD Recovery Hub

PTSD Recovery Library

This is your growing library of tools to help you recover from chronic stress, emotional abuse, high-conflict relationships, and trauma from divorce or other life events. Some resources are free, others will become low-cost trainings and mini e-books as your recovery ecosystem grows.

Nothing here is therapy or a diagnosis. These are educational tools to help you understand what you’ve been through, calm your nervous system, and rebuild your sense of self — one small step at a time.

Not sure where to start?

Follow this simple path the first time you visit the PTSD Recovery Library:

Step 1

Read: Start Here – Understanding Trauma

Get a plain-English overview of trauma, nervous system overload, and why you’re not “broken” — your body has been trying to keep you alive.

Go to Start Here →
Step 2

Take: PTSD Recovery Load Quiz

A short 7-question self-reflection that gives you a Recovery Load Score (0–10) with green / yellow / red guidance.

Take the Quiz →
Step 3

Choose: Tools That Match Your Energy Level

If you’re barely functioning, start with short grounding tools. If you have more capacity, explore deeper education, journaling prompts, or mini-courses.

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Legend: Free Low-cost / Mini course 1:1 or premium

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Start where your body and brain can actually follow through. Short, simple tools are just as powerful as deep-dive trainings when you use them consistently.

🩹 Quick-Relief Grounding Tools

Mostly Free

Use these when you’re overwhelmed, panicky, or spiraling after a text, email, or argument.

  • 5-Minute Grounding Script – simple steps to bring your body back into the room. (Free)
  • “After a Blow-Up” Reset – what to do in the first 30 minutes after a fight or trigger. (Free)
  • Sleep Wind-Down Routine – micro-ritual to help your nervous system power down at night. (Free)

As your library grows, these can link to short PDFs, audios, or video clips.

🧠 Education: Trauma, DARVO & Gaslighting

Short Guides

For when you’re ready to understand what happened to you, not just “what’s wrong with me?”

  • Trauma 101 – why your body reacts before your brain can catch up. (Free)
  • DARVO Explained – Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim & Offender patterns in plain English. (Mini e-book)
  • Gaslighting & Coercive Control – how control hides inside “concern,” “jokes,” and rules. (Mini course)
Go to Trauma Education →

🚪 Leaving & Healing from Narcissistic Abuse

Deep-Dive

For survivors who’ve spent years walking on eggshells around a covert, overt, or high-conflict personality.

  • “You Are Not Crazy” Starter Guide – how narcissistic abuse rewires your reality. (Mini e-book)
  • No-Contact / Low-Contact Roadmap – scripts and boundaries in real-world language. (Video + workbook)
  • Rebuilding Self-Trust – daily micro-practices to hear your own voice again. (Guided journal)
Need personal support? See 1:1 coaching →

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Co-Parenting & Family After Trauma

Mixed

For parents trying to protect their kids’ nervous systems while managing a high-conflict co-parent or intense family dynamics.

  • Talking to Kids After Explosive Conflict – age-appropriate scripts. (Free PDF)
  • “Calm Parent, Stormy Ex” Toolkit – email & text templates that don’t feed the fire. (Mini toolkit)
  • Breaking Generational Patterns – noticing what you’re passing down, and how to change it. (Video class)
See divorce & co-parenting mediation options →

🏡 Staying… But Changing the Rules

Mixed

Not everyone leaves. Some people stay and focus on protecting their mental health, money, and boundaries.

  • “I’m Staying for Now” Safety Map – emotional, financial, and physical safety check. (Worksheet)
  • Boundary Scripts for Everyday Life – small phrases that slowly change the pattern. (PDF)
  • Exit Plan Planner – if you ever decide to leave, you won’t be starting from zero. (Guide)

These can support people in marriages, families, shared housing, or cultural/religious contexts where leaving is complicated.

🌅 Life After Court & After the Storm

Future Bundles

When the paperwork is done but your body and mind are still living in survival mode.

  • Rebuilding Identity After a Long Relationship – who am I now? (Mini e-book)
  • Money & Stability After Chaos – tiny practical steps to rebuild your footing. (Workbook)
  • Finding Safe People Again – red flags, green flags, and pacing new connections. (Video series)
See future PTSD Recovery Bundles →

Want more structure or personal support?

Recovery is not a race, and it’s not a competition. Some people heal mostly through education and self-guided tools. Others need 1:1 support, community, or both. Wherever you fall, you’re not “too much” and you’re not behind.

Important: Mediation & Mitigation Solutions does not provide therapy, crisis services, or medical care. If you are in immediate danger, thinking about self-harm, or in a medical emergency, please contact local emergency services, a crisis hotline, or a trusted professional right away.