Impact on Divorce & Custody

How temporary restraining orders can shape outcomes before facts are fully examined

Even though a Domestic Violence Temporary Restraining Order (DVTRO) is designed to be short-term, its effects can extend far beyond the initial filing—particularly in divorce and custody cases.

Because these orders are often issued early and under time pressure, they can influence housing, finances, parenting arrangements, and negotiation dynamics before the court has evaluated all evidence.

Impact on Housing

One of the most immediate effects of a DVTRO can be a change in living arrangements.

• One party may be ordered to move out of a shared residence
• The remaining party may gain temporary exclusive use of the home
• Financial responsibility for housing expenses may continue despite restricted access

These temporary arrangements can become difficult to reverse, especially if they remain in place for an extended period.

Impact on Custody & Parenting Time

DVTROs can significantly affect parenting schedules, even when custody has not yet been formally decided.

• Temporary custody orders may be issued
• Visitation may be limited, supervised, or paused
• Established routines may be disrupted

Over time, temporary parenting arrangements can begin to feel permanent—particularly when courts prioritize maintaining stability for children.

Financial & Negotiation Effects

Beyond housing and custody, DVTROs can influence financial dynamics and settlement discussions.

• Legal costs may increase due to emergency filings
• Negotiation leverage may shift early in the case
• Temporary orders can influence long-term settlement expectations

These effects are often procedural rather than intentional, but they can still shape the trajectory of a case.

Perception vs. Findings

In family court, early impressions matter. A DVTRO may create assumptions—by professionals, evaluators, or even the parties themselves—before facts are fully examined.

It is important to remember:

• Temporary orders are not final judgments
• Allegations are not findings
• Process timing can affect perception

Understanding System Pressure Points

Because DVTROs are powerful procedural tools, they can sometimes be used strategically in high-conflict situations—creating outcomes that extend beyond immediate safety.

The next section explores how powerful systems can produce unintended consequences without dismissing legitimate need for protection.